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Photo by Stocksy. One early December, my boyfriend and I had our first date. Also note that this was not because I had some notion that we would end up together long-term, but rather because I was embarrassed to be seen in public with him because of our age difference. At the time, I thought that people would judge us and stare, or even worse, someone might mistake him for my son. In reality, strangers hardly know there is much of an age difference between us, and they're almost certainly unaware that the difference is about


A middle-aged man dating a much younger woman has long been thought of in American culture as a classic of midlife crisis. In some circles, dating a younger woman is a status symbol. Same-sex couples sometimes feature a ificant age gap as well. Navigating the social ramifications of your relationship while struggling with generation gaps can be tough, but a ificant age difference can give you the chance to consider new perspectives and appreciate the offerings of a different generation. Sometimes a ificant age gap makes a relationship impossible.

A younger guy can recharge your sense of adventure.

No matter how real your feelings are, getting involved with someone under the age of 18 can lead to serious legal trouble. Age differences can also mean ificant differences in lifestyle.

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If you have an established career but your partner is still living with his or her parents, you could be in for a rocky ride. Love knows no age, but if you date only people who are members of a different generation, it might reveal something about your approach to relationships.

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While people who date only people much younger or older than them owe no one an explanation, it may be helpful to consider underlying reasoning. Some who date only much older people may be seeking a parental figure more than a romantic partner. They may be insecure about finances and thus want to be with someone established in his or her career. A big age difference provides you with valuable opportunities to learn about alternative perspectives and experiences.

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The odds are good that some people are going to disagree with your choices in romantic partners, no matter how perfect your relationship is. But be prepared for snide, inconsiderate remarks. Although age differences can create some challenges in your relationship, focusing too much on age can backfire. The preceding article was solely written by the author named above.

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They made it work for them and modeled a ver healthy and strong marriage for all of us .

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I married a woman 16 years younger at I was a very successful businessman at 49 yoa. We had 2 children together.

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During that time, she met another man and filed for divorce. My health problems included a traumatic brain injury of which surgery corrected. I believe she thought I would have mental problems and allowed herself to question our future with my diminished mental capacity. She ran off with another man when I was having my final heart valve surgery.

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Served me divorce papers 3 days before the surgery. I was shattered and although remarried to a woman who saved me from the depths of depression, I am still angry and depressed. She was my dream. Not just her, but the intact family. I think that marriages with huge age differences are doomed to fail because of the generational differences, cultural disparity and the needs of each person during their respective biological age. In my case, I married a younger, intelligent and beautiful sociopath which exacerbated the age difference. Has it occurred to you that it must be tough being married to someone who considers another, much younger woman, to be his dream, and is still hung up on her?

Your current wife must feel terrible, second best, simply there to save you the trouble of dating, and to cheer you up. Face facts — you were led by your loins and wanted a trophy wife, and she left you for another similar sucker.

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You now have someone wonderful, who you are making unhappy — and yes, she will definitely be unhappy because she will know, all the time, that Angel Knickers was the One Who Got Away and she is the stop gap, only acceptable as long as she continues to behave herself. I know because I always hoping now in the past seem to win the spot of playing that role.

Age is just a just because some of you on here have been let down by your partner seen a story that was sad but we all the same ok. It is up to the individual to decide who or how old the person is they want to date or be with. I was with a man from another country for 25 long years. I met him when I was young and naive and had four kids with him. I left him three years ago it was sheer bravery on my part as I had nothing but the cloths on my back. He never allowed me to have a life or money or a job or drive or think for myself he took over my life and reduced me to a woman with no self esteem and unsure of herself and zero confidence.

1. i remind myself that no one can predict the future.

Today I am becoming me again with a guy who I met on a dating app he found me after going through the worst guys to traumatic to mention. I had almost given up hope and thought I would be alone and vunerable for the rest of my life. He had to go through my second oldest girl who opposed the relationship and did not think he was serious about me. Then my son who lived with us fulltime now stays at weekends much easier. I will always feel bad about leaving him when I left his dad and in time he will slowly forgive me. But it was either disintergrate more or get out and start again which I did. My guy is lovely and has issues but they dont bother me as he puts up with mine too and I have many.

He is like a old man for 26 and I am not typical of my age 51 this year.

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I have been told by other woman and my kids that I dont look my age and act my age good. I smoke and drink and love loud music and he is quiet on his computer and total opposite but it seems to work. We rarely argue but we do and is almost funny sometimes. I am happier than I have ever been and cant remember the woman I use to be as its to painful to remember.

My kids kept me going all those years and I will never regret having them. But I looked older when I was with him and today I look younger because I am finally happy for the first time in my life. I have had a few females challenge me because im with a younger guy but it does not daze me as I know he loves me and would never stray as my gut instinct tell me this.

A strong connection is real, no matter the age difference.

I dont have any female friends as they are dodgy where im from and cant handle the fact that im with a younger guy. I rely on my kids as friends now they are older and have one online friend overseas who I talk to most days and have known her three years and met her on a slot game. She made me realize I was unhappy and lonely when I met her and my oldest girl convinced me as she was tired of seeing her mum unhappy for so many years.

I will never look back.

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He is still a miserable old man ex and recently had a stroke so is called karma. I am having minor health issues hernia op last year and menopause issues. I was in very bad health when i left him as he would never give me money and I could not even go to the doctor.

I have my life and independence back and have learned is not a functioning relationship when you dont have a life and are not free to go and come as you please and have to ask to go out or buy wine or anything this is being trapped and in prison. Now my son my youngest is experiancing the same control with him. He is 17 this year and has no bank or independence and is always at home and get a lift to school. When he lived with me he did what he wanted and had money and went out with his friends and walked to school and made his own lunch.

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Eventually he will get tired of his dad and go and live with his sister or me. Time will tell. Control like this is never good it is not a of love it is hate and manipulation as the person needs to control everything around them so they feel superior to everyone else around them this is sick. I am fortunate he does not want kids as not everyone wants this now and have nearly four grandchildren. I need to be happy and not think about the future. Never give up love will find you it found me finally. Is this really the ideal for a lot of people?

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I know that there are a lot of men my age who want a younger woman but all I can really sit and wonder is why? No offense to younger women but I just fail to see how they are going to understand my needs the way a woman more my age would. And why I would wnat to keep trying to get her to understand.

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The heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes that means dating someone who is, ahem, a younger man.


This post comes to us via Carly Jacobs of Smaggle fame.


When I met my boyfriend Jesse, I was 28 and he was 24 — not too much of a dating age difference in the grand scheme of things, but to hear some of my friends at the time tell it, you'd think we were Harold and Maude — or at the very least, Ashton and Demi.